Solemnization

Phase 1: Planning and Booking 

• Kursus kahwin
• Outfits
• my dress (sew and design by MOM)
• his baju melayu (sew by mom) 
• Choose
• Makeup Artist : undecided
• Photographer : cousin abg apis
• Videographer :NO
• Doorgifts : Yasin by ???
• Henna : original 
• Room decoration : i dont know
• Book/Place order/Pay deposit
• Photographer
• Doorgifts
• make up 
• Caterer

Phase 2: Detailing 

• Outfits (for both him and me)
• Add beadings (mom handmade)
• Buy
• An exclusive samping
• Songkok brooch
• Veil (custom made if possible) and tudung (done)
• Discussion:
• Room concept - simple n purple

Phase 3: Three Months Left

• HIV Test (Febuary 2012)
• Book Tok Kadi
• Receive:
• Doorgifts: Yasin
• Room furnishing and decoration
• Paint room
• Buy furnishings
• Decorate room

Phase 4: A Week Prior 

• Final facial before the big day!
• Manicure and pedicure
• Send his and/or hers outfits for fitting (if required)
• Waxing

Phase 5: A Day Before 

• Henna 
• Receive:
• Prototype of dais
• Buy flowers and make handbouquet 
• Learn to relax! (if required)